One School Day = six hours. That's not entirely true, when you think about it, you still have to deal with school even after the six hours are done. There is homework that the teachers assign, and also studying for tests and projects. So how much time is left over after you've done all of the work? Well, it depends on what time you go to bed and there are many other variables, as well. One variable has to do with how many academic classes you are taking. If you take AP or Honors classes you are going to have more homework and you'll end up using some of the left over time to study for more tests. They have more curriculum to cover, so there will be more (outside of school) work to do.
But schoolwork isn't the only thing that takes up the time of a high school student. Sports, theater, chorus, and dance, also take up time during the week (and weekend). You have practices, (with the team and on your own) and then there are the games. There is stress not only on the players to be at every practice and all of the games, but also to keep their grades up and do well in school.
All of these things take away from what teens consider to be the most important part of high school…friends. Football games, homecoming dances, and Facebook, are all ways to develop a deeper relationship with friends. And, as you look around, the relationships built in high school can and will last a lifetime.
The pressure to "be the best" and take the most "challenging classes" is stronger than ever for high school students. Have you ever been told to "do the best you can do" and "if you know you've done your best then what ever the outcome is, it will be okay." Well, it's almost impossible for students not to compare themselves to others. It seems colleges are harder to get into, and we hear it's harder to get a job, so the people who get attention are the people who do the "best," or the people who have "connections." That leaves out the middle people. As a society we have built a social pyramid and put our students at the bottom, expecting them to climb to the top. Even though parents and adults may not mean to, the pressure to "be the best" and make our parents "proud" is definitely a component.
Yes, going to college and getting a good job are what we need to do for ourselves but there is still a part of us that wants to do it for our parents. But our accomplishments don't need to be life saving accomplishments to be considered a success. For example, writing a personal narrative about the trip you took last month or painting a picture of your dog sitting on the couch or just writing a card that showed how much they love you can be a success.
Supporting your children and pushing them to do their best is a great thing, but as a society we need to realize that kids have to master the balancing act of a student, an athlete, an actor, a singer, a family member, and a friend on our own.
Sometimes the greatest pressure we feel is the pressure we put on ourselves.