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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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"The Purpose of Sex"
May 9, 2014 1:17 pm
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Ashley Judd, in her memoir, wrote that Archbishop Desmond Tutu told her that the purpose of sex between married couples is "as an instrument of love and expression,... More
May 9, 2014 1:17 pm
Comments: 8 | Views: 35,597
Ashley Judd, in her memoir, wrote that Archbishop Desmond Tutu told her that the purpose of sex between married couples is "as an instrument of love and expression,... More
Why does She Keep Interrupting Me?
May 6, 2014 1:58 pm
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Interruption, or Bid for Connection?
Are you busy, working away, or engrossed in some project and your wife tends to come in and "interrupt" you with... More
May 6, 2014 1:58 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 35,325
Interruption, or Bid for Connection?
Are you busy, working away, or engrossed in some project and your wife tends to come in and "interrupt" you with... More
Silicon Valley Therapist Designs the Worst Video Game Ever! And Another In MOMA
May 2, 2014 7:43 am
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This interview on CNN is our own, local Howard Scott Warshaw, MFT,... More
May 2, 2014 7:43 am
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This interview on CNN is our own, local Howard Scott Warshaw, MFT,... More
Dear Chandrama,
My wife thinks I am keeping secrets . . .
Apr 29, 2014 8:27 am
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. . . from her. I am just trying to protect her. I had a challenging upbringing; hers was protected. That innocence attracted me to her, plus she is smart and attractive... More
Apr 29, 2014 8:27 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 32,725
. . . from her. I am just trying to protect her. I had a challenging upbringing; hers was protected. That innocence attracted me to her, plus she is smart and attractive... More
Dear Chandrama, I Want to Change my Life . . .
Apr 25, 2014 9:00 am
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. . . and I'm finding it hard to do. I am scared, and realize that in some areas I am stuck in my ways. My husband wants me to change, too. Any advice?
Stuck
Dear... More
Apr 25, 2014 9:00 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 37,508
. . . and I'm finding it hard to do. I am scared, and realize that in some areas I am stuck in my ways. My husband wants me to change, too. Any advice?
Stuck
Dear... More
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