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She Doesn't Want Sex; He Doesn't Want to Talk, Part III purposely left silence last week because that is what can happen when not talking and not having sex go on for a while. That silence gets filled with logistics,...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Jun. 2, 2015Last comment by Sir Chasm, on Jun 9, 2015 at 10:37 am | 5 comments | 29386 Views
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Valentine’s Day ExpectationsWhat are your Valentine’s Day expectations? Have you discussed them? It seems that traditionally men buy at least a card, chocolate and flowers, (and sometimes...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Feb. 8, 2017There are no comments yet. 29351 Views
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Marriage Interview 6: Blind to ClutterMandy and Sam met in college in 1988 and began dating a year later. They waited 15 years before getting married, and now have been married for 13 years. One of...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Apr. 28, 2015Last comment by Chandrama Anderson, on May 4, 2015 at 8:35 am | 7 comments | 29312 Views
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“A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who won't give up on each other.”Thanks, Kate Stewart, for that quote. No one is perfect. Shooting for perfection takes too much time and energy away from your life. Do things very well; care...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Aug. 6, 2021Last comment by Chandrama Anderson, on Aug 13, 2021 at 10:59 am | 5 comments | 29258 Views
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Highly Educated Women Moving to Silicon Valley/Bay AreaIt seems there’s a continuing influx of people from around the country and the world to this area. Many families move to Silicon Valley and the Bay Area for...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Nov. 19, 2015Last comment by marc665, on Nov 24, 2015 at 8:51 am | 2 comments | 29251 Views
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Marriage Interview 11: "Normal" Engineer CoupleGeorge and Victoria met in 1990 through a matching service. But for some reason George didn't return Victoria's call for a few weeks, and when he finally did, she...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Sep. 24, 2015There are no comments yet. 29208 Views
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Communal Sexual Strength and MotivationIn the October issue of Psychology Today I finally found a name for something I've been talking to clients about for many years: it's called communal motivation,...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Nov. 13, 2015There are no comments yet. 29140 Views
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Number One at Home, "Average" Here?Were you number one in your class? Were you the smart kid? A geek? Whether you got kudos for it or bullied, or a reaction in between, your smarts are likely...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Sep. 15, 2015There are no comments yet. 29085 Views
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Marriage Interview 9: Make a Date to Have Sex Once or Twice a Week and . . .. . . Deeply Understand Yourself and Your Partner Jessica and Steve just celebrated their 25th anniversary. Steve is 72 and Jessica is 68. They met in 1989 at...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Jul. 28, 2015Last comment by Observer, on Aug 1, 2015 at 12:27 pm | 14 comments | 28900 Views
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Couples: Three Categories of SexIn his book Passionate Marriage, David Schnarch describes the research of Donald Mosher regarding three categories -- or styles -- of sex (pg. 244-260). I find these...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Sep. 7, 2018Last comment by the_punnisher, on Sep 10, 2018 at 5:34 pm | 2 comments | 28895 Views
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Been Hacked? "Married People Seeking Affairs" Website Has BeenIn a story revealed by Wired, hackers accessed the files of about 32 million users of the site AshleyMadison.com. According to Ashley Madison, their website "is...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Aug. 20, 2015Last comment by Curmudgeon, on Aug 23, 2015 at 5:16 pm | 3 comments | 28825 Views
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When Under Stress, Do you Fight, Flight, or Freeze?While we are human beings capable of thinking, many of our reactions do not come from our thinking, or cortical, brain. They come from our limbic, or emotional,...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Mar. 18, 2016There are no comments yet. 28744 Views
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UmpquaMy daughter died in-utero 17 years ago in the midst of five miscarriages. I have done everything I can think of to keep my son safe (and not smother him in the process)....
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Oct. 6, 2015Last comment by NeilsonBuchanan, on Oct 12, 2015 at 12:59 pm | 1 comment | 28634 Views
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“We are Spiritually Unemployed”I’m talking about the definition from the Oxford Dictionary: “of, relating to, or affecting the human spirit or soul as opposed to material or physical...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Jun. 2, 2016Last comment by James, on Jul 26, 2016 at 6:34 am | 9 comments | 28610 Views
A NEW SHADE OF GREEN
Kill two birds with one ... mini-split!Mini-splits are the multi-tools of HVAC. They can heat, they can cool, and they are very modular -- you can put in as few or as many as you want, where you want....
Original post made by Sherry Listgarten on Feb. 28, 2021Last comment by RMRN, on Mar 8, 2021 at 9:05 am | 16 comments | 28542 Views
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Election Day: Vote for Your PartnerPlease go out and vote in the election today. You voice matters. Let it be heard. Every day, vote for your partner, your relationship, your marriage. A lot of...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Nov. 8, 2016Last comment by Chandrama Anderson, on Nov 14, 2016 at 7:55 am | 4 comments | 28482 Views
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A conservative Black scholar's view on Race in AmericaHoover Institution Senior Fellow Shelby Steele minces no words when he describes the current Black Lives Matter and other racial protests—they are a “distraction&rdquo...
Original post made by Tim Hunt on Jul. 9, 2020Last comment by DKHSK, on Jul 17, 2020 at 11:30 am | 31 comments | 28364 Views
A NEW SHADE OF GREEN
The Best Time to Charge an EV==I Note: The content in this post is largely specific to the state of California. Other regions will have different power mixes, so the best times to charge an...
Original post made by Sherry Listgarten on May. 12, 2019Last comment by Sherry Listgarten, on Jun 7, 2019 at 4:56 pm | 24 comments | 28360 Views
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Follow-up to a Love ScriptOn January 21st I posted a blog about the Love Script: Arthur Aron's 36 questions...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Apr. 20, 2015There are no comments yet. 28360 Views
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Give Way or Have it Your Way?What does Give Way mean in a relationship context? I'm thinking this morning of active yielding vs. passive yielding. Passive giving way may be a path of not...
Original post made by Chandrama Anderson on Jul. 13, 2015Last comment by Chandrama Anderson, on Jul 21, 2015 at 11:49 am | 2 comments | 28071 Views
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